No mountain is too high, no stone is too small….
Well, here I am again beginning to write but not really knowing where to start. I will start by saying that each day is a new adventure and a new opportunity to fully cherish in this wild adventure that has become my life. I still cannot even fathom that I have lived on three continents in one year and been to nine countries. I cannot figure out how I became so fortunate but I am so very grateful. I am learning more than even I am aware. One small fun thing that happens here is that when I walk around Langa (which has not happened too often) little kids are running all over the streets playing. Also, a lot of them will scream “umlungu! Umlungu!” as soon as they see me. “Umlungu” means “white person” in Xhosa. It took me by surprise at first but now I think it is cute and a little funny.
This past week has been great. I have fallen into a routine and being the person I am, I love it. There has been something great and reassuring about being in a routine. As I mentioned before, I get picked up from my house each day at seven in the morning and am taken to the classroom in a part of Cape Town called Rondebosch. There we have Xhosa (more to come later), have guest lecturers and we have begun to discuss the ISP (Independent Study Project) that will happen in April. I have pretty much become accustom to Rondebosch and have found “my places” that I enjoy eating at and finding the things I need. It is comforting to know my way around and to feel comfortable in an area. Not to worry though I am still being very careful and very aware of my surroundings.
We are brought back to our homes in Langa between 5:30 and 6:00. From then I may do a little homework or just talk with my host sister. Then as a family, we have dinner….I mean we all eat at the same time in different areas. My host sister and I eat in the kitchen at the counter/bar area, my host brother eats at the edge of the counter on the other side of the kitchen and then my host mom and grandma eat in the living room in front of the TV. My host sister reminisce about the days happening s and whatever else we can think of, I am really enjoying spending time with her and getting to know her. Then after dinner my host sister washes the dishes and I dry them and put them away. Then Zizi (host sister) makes tea for my host mom and host grandma. The rest of the evening usually includes a little TV, a little homework and bed by 10:00 pm. It is like clockwork and I love it. My host family is so relaxed and low key, it has been wonderful to stay here.
As far as school is concerned Xhosa is going well , I feel like I am learning more and more but still am anxious for the rural homestay (first week of March) in which the family will only speak Xhosa and no English. I am sure that when I am in that situation and I will be forced to speak it all day every day I will learn a lot of things very quickly. We are learning Xhosa from a white guy. Let me tell you that this is VERY unusual. It is rare that you would even find a white person that speaks Xhosa even a little much less one who is teaching other white people the language. Interesting but very cool at the same time.
Culturally there have been moments that I will never forget. For example, I was in a cafĂ© and just finished skyping with my wonderful wonderful family and ended up having a conversation with a white South African woman. We chit chatted about coffee and then about the program I was doing, but then I mentioned that I am living in Langa. She was shocked and did not even know what to say. Her face looked like I told her I was going to grow wings and fly back home to Colorado. I could not help but smile. I felt she was really ignorant about Langa but also it was a great eye opener about how what an incredibly strange and well…awesome thing we are doing. There is so much cultural insight I and others in the program are gaining but living her in Langa.
On Wednesday, we had some time off in the afternoon so a few of us went to a market in Cape Town. It was fun to venture off away from class and to see another part of Cape Town. The market was so much fun. But, I have discovered I am not good at bartering and I am not good at ignoring people when they push me to buy something. I feel like I did pretty well and did not buy too much but still it is so hard to be so blunt with people. I really enjoyed the afternoon out and feel like I will return there again at least once or twice before I leave. Markets are so much fun.
Thursday, we had the opportunity to go and observe in different schools throughout Cape Town. I was really happy when I was placed in a primary (elementary/middle) school in Langa. The school was fairly poor by American standards but all in all it is one of the best schools in Langa. I love volunteering in schools and it was so great to be back in that environment. I know that I stood out but it was okay, the kids were very nice and I know it was strange for them to have this white girl sitting in their classroom. It was hard for me to simply sit and observe. I really wanted to be more involved and felt weird just sitting in the classroom. I was placed with an 8th grade math and science teacher. I loved being in a math classroom. The students were very well behaved and they had the neatest handwriting; I was really impressed. All in all I loved the school day and seeing what schools are like in Langa. I am fairly confident this will not be the last time I go to a school in Cape Town.
I wanted to mention how I have noticed how blunt South Africa is in general. Let me explain that a little. They are very blunt about race you are white, you are black, you are Indian and so on. In other words this notion of political correctness that we have in America does not exist here. It is hard to get used to but they tell it like it is and that is the way it is. So when I refer to someone as white or black, for better or worse, that is just the way people refer to others here. Something that I don’t believe you would find in America.
I have one more week in Langa. As I have mentioned I am really enjoying my stay in Langa. However, I can feel myself and others in the group becoming anxious or antsy for our next adventure. I will be moving around constantly in March and I think I am just getting really excited for that. Tomorrow (Saturday), we have our excursion to Robben Island and then the beach. I am really excited to go to Robben Island, I have heard it is very powerful and very intense but I am excited to gain insight on that part of South African history. Also spending the afternoon at the beach will not be such a bad deal either.
South Africa has brought many new challenges and joys thus far and I have only just begun. I hope that everyone is well. I am sorry about the lack of pictures I will try to take more this week. Sometimes I just do not feel right about taking pictures of some things. The pictures below are not great but just to give you a glimpse at what I am doing and where I am living.
Miss you all and hope you are well!
Sala Kakuhle,
Keely